How to Love God

Mark 12: 28-34       November 1, 2009

If you could meet Jesus face to face and ask him one question, what would you ask him?  If you only had one question, what would it be?  I thought about that this week and I’m still not sure what I would ask Jesus… 

In our scripture this morning we have the story of a Jewish Scribe, a teacher of the law that gets his chance to ask Jesus a question… 

The Bible says that he arrives on the scene and finds Jesus debating with the Jewish leaders and he was impressed how well Jesus was answering their questions…  And he may have said to himself, “You know, I have a theological question of my own.  I’m not here to trap Jesus like these other guys.  I’m not here to cause any problems.  I’m not part of a grand conspiracy.  I’m really interested in what Jesus has to say!”  So he asks Jesus, “Of all the commandments in the Bible, which is the most important?” 

Jesus could have answered, “What do you mean which is the most important?  They are ALL important…  That’s why they are in the Bible!”  But instead, Jesus answered the main point blank…  He said, “the most important one is this: Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is One.”  Those are the words that God gave to Moses to give to the Israelites during the Exodus…  And almost every Jewish person in the history of the world knows that Bible verse which is Deut. 6: 4…  And they are supposed to say it three times a day.  They say it once in the morning so that the one true God will be on their mind when they get up…   They say it again at lunch as a reminder that the one true God is Lord over their daytime activities…  And then they say it at night so that the one true God will be the last person on their mind as they go to sleep…. 

The idea behind this commandment is to remember that the Lord is our God every moment of our lives!  But sometimes we forget that because we get so busy and so self absorbed…  We wake up, grab a cup of coffee, go to work, pick up the kids, come home, make dinner, go to bed, and then get up the next day and do it all again… 

Sometimes the days of our lives move at such a hectic pace that before you know it, the day is over and we haven’t spent any time with God…  and before you know it the week is over and we haven’t spent any time with God…   

Now if someone were to ask us point blank if Jesus was the Lord of our lives, we would probably say “yes” because it’s the Christian thing to say…  But would you have any proof?  Could you prove your answer by the way you live? 

Friends, it not enough just to say that we believe in the one true God…  Jesus says that we are to love the one true God…

How are we supposed to love God?  Jesus tells us!  Look at verse 30, Jesus said, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength…” 

In the Bible, the heart is the seat of our emotions and feelings  so when Jesus says to love God WITH ALL OF YOUR HEART, he’s saying, “I want you to love Him with all of your affection, all of your devotion, all of your emotions, and all your feelings…”  In other words, we are to love God with a passion… 

Illus:  I was watching a worship service on TV the other night and the people were standing up and praising the Lord… Others had their hands in the air with tears coming down their cheeks…  And maybe you’re thinking, “Well, I hope our church never gets to be like THAT! Those people are just too emotional.” 

Where in the Bible does it say that it’s a sin to get emotional?  I don’t think the people were too emotional, I think they were pouring their hearts out to God…   they were loving God with all of their hearts and as a result their hearts were being moved by the Holy Spirit… 

Illus:  I’ve always found it interesting that the same people who are so reserved and quite in church will go home and watch a football game and start screaming, “Let’s go team, get um team, touch down!”  If you can get so passionate over a game that has no lasting eternal value, then what’s wrong with getting passionate about your personal relationship with God?  What’s wrong with pouring out all of your heart and all of your feelings to the Lord?  What’s wrong with telling God how much you love Him?  What’s wrong with shedding a few tears?  We need to learn how to love God with all of our heart, our emotions, our feelings… 

But notice that Jesus said that we are to love God with ALL OF OUR SOUL… The word “soul” in Greek is “psu-che” (sy-key), it’s where we get our word “psychology.”  It refers to the inner life of man, his powers of choice and will and reason.  So loving God with all of your soul means making a deep down conscious commitment to love the Lord with all that it within you… 

To love God with all of your soul is even a deeper love than loving God with all of your heart…  Our heart love is our feelings, emotions, and passion but our soul love is a love that is grounded in a deeply personal decision that allows us to love God and to keep that relationship no matter what your feelings are telling you to do… 

Do you understand what I’m saying?  It’s not enough just to have some emotional feelings about God…  There needs to be an inner resolve to keep loving the Lord and being faithful to Him even when we don’t feel the passion… 

I think that helps to explain why some Christians fall away from the faith…  They may have come to the Lord with all of their heartfelt emotions, but underneath all those emotions, the one thing that was missing was a deep down, soulful commitment to God…  So when their feelings for God dissipated, their love for God disappeared…  They thought they loved God but their thoughts changed when their feelings changed… 

And that leads us to the next kind of love…  For Jesus said that you are to love God with ALL OF YOUR MIND…  Now, we have to think about this one  that’s using your mind… 

How do we love the Lord with all of our mind?  We place God in our thoughts…  We meditate on God… We think about God…  We think Godly thoughts… 

Illus:  You know, that’s not real easy… In the days of the circuit riders, a minister was out riding one afternoon and came upon a man out working in his field… 

The minister called out, “Isn’t it a fine day?”  The man replied, “Its fine for you if all you have to do is ride around on that horse thinking about God all day.”

“On the contrary”, the minister answered, “thinking about God is one of the most difficult things you can do…”  And to prove my point, I’ll give you this horse if you can think about God and nothing else for one minute…” 

The ole farmer said, “You’re on,” and immediately he sat down and bowed his head in silence…  Thirty seconds later, he looked up at the minister, and said, “Does that include the saddle?” 

As your pastor, you pay me to be the administrator of the church…  I pray for the sick, I visit those who are in the hospital, I plan programs, I deal with finances, I meet with various committees, I even preach on Sunday mornings…  But perhaps, the most important thing you pay to do is to study… 

We are called to love God intelligently and intellectually…  That is the business of theology…  Theology is the theory of something  and we all have theology because we all have thoughts and theories…

As Christians we should all be studying God’s Word and shaping our theology about God…  Because our theology, our theories become what we believe and what we stand for… 

You've seen the commercials…  "A mind is a terrible thing to waste…"  Jesus tells us to love God with all our mind…  A mind committed to Christ is a powerful thing…

I believe that a mind committed to God will become a mind into which God will pour His wisdom and knowledge… 

Do you want to "get smart…"  Commit your mind to Christ…

Scientist say that we only use about 10% of our brain…  Perhaps the other 90% is reserved and can only be activated by God… when we learn to love Him with all our mind…

And lastly, Jesus said that we should love the Lord with ALL OF OUR STRENGTH… 

I believe it’s not enough to love the Lord your God with all your heart – your passion, and with all your soul – your psyche, and with all your mind – your brains  but we have to love Him with all of our strength – our muscles… 

We misunderstand love if we reduce it to a sentiment of the heart, a word for the breath, or a thought from the mind…  Love is also something that we do…  It’s a word that causes us to flex our muscles and use our energy… 

Illus:  There is a young man who didn’t know this when he first got married…  He had to learn it the hard way, he had to be taught how to love… 

He always told his wife how much he loved her…  He felt it and he believed it, but he didn’t do anything about it…  He left dirty clothes lying on the floor, but when they would go to bed, he would kiss her and say, “Honey, I love you.”  He never cooked a meal or helped his wife with the dishes, but he would always say, Honey, I love you…”  He never went grocery shopping or took his wife out to dinner, but he would always say, “Honey, I love you.” 

One day his wife said, “You’ve got to stop saying that you love me…”  He said, “But honey, I do love you, I feel it, I say it, and I think it…”  She said, “No, if you loved me, you would do something about it… You would keep your part of the relationship…”  She was right, because she knows the full shape of love…

Friends, to love God with all your strength is to keep your part of the relationship that God established… 

We are called to do the work of the kingdom that God has called us to do…  Each day we face some task for God’s sake  and it takes our strength and energy to perform the tasks…  And if we love God with all of our strength, the work that we do will be a part of God’s work  and as we work, we will delight in His ways and walk in His love… 

Christianity is not just an inside thing  it can't just be in the heart and in the head…  It has to be alive…  It must be lived out…  This is what makes it the most powerful force in the world…  It has to be released…  

James tells us that we ought to be "doers of the word…"  Loving God is not just an inside thing…  It's an outside thing as well…

It's to be taken into this dark world and shared with everyone we meet…

Illus:  A story is told of an easterner that walked into a western saloon…  He was amazed to find a dog sitting at a table playing cards with three men…  He asked the men, “Can that dog really play cards?”  One of the men answered, “Yeah, but he ain’t much of a player.  Whenever he gets a good hand he wags his tail…”

When it comes to our love for God, we need to let our tails wag a bit more freely… 

Eugene Peterson in the Message paraphrased the greatest commandment by saying, “Love the Lord your God with all your passion, your prayers, your intelligence, and your energy…”  Those are good words to put on our lips…  With those words, we announce that our lives will be directed, not wasted… 

Rather than stumbling around each day and ending up nowhere, the Great Commandment calls us to aim our hearts and our souls, our minds and  our strength towards God… 

May we aim ourselves towards loving the God who first loved us…  In doing so, we too will not be far from the kingdom of God…